lost in my own world

[lost in my own world]

[bobohu]

be kind. be ridiculously, radically, endlessly kind. be a part of someone’s good day. send nice thoughts, send positive vibes, send support and love and well wishes. be kind. so often we wish for tomorrow to be a good day when we are at our lowest. some sort of sign that it gets better. be a part of that better day for someone. the world does not magically decide that it will be softer on you today, tomorrow, the next day. and sometimes it starts with a message from someone else, maybe a little bit of inner strength to pull yourself up and take a shower, maybe a bit of sunlight makes the day better. but it’s these small things, these soft things that make a day better. so be kind. don’t ever think about being anything other than kind. be a part of someone’s good day because you don’t know how desperate they might be for it. 

[lost in my own world]

[lost in my own world]

[love]

The Dreamers (2003)

[lost in my own world]

[lost in my own world]

I want to text you. Just to remind you that I’m still here.

But then I remember that you know I’m here. You just don’t care.

Midnight thoughts (I won’t do this again)

[lost in my own world]

[arabwife]

Be with someone who is good for your mental health

[lost in my own world]

[lost in my own world]

[lost in my own world]

Hypocrisy.

[theselovelybutterflybones]

Fact: People lie. They’ll tell you “You’re perfect the way you are.” “You don’t need to change a thing. You’re already beautiful.” “Every size is beautiful.” 

They’re lying.

Fact: People treat you nicer when you’re thin. People find you attractive when you’re thin. People actually ask you out when you’re thin. 

Fact: Society is nicer to skinny people. Fashion looks better on skinny people. The world is easier for skinny people.

Fact: I know this from personal experience. 

When I dropped 10lbs, my brother’s best friend finally acknowledged my existence and asked me out. I said no.

When I dropped 20lbs, my ex wanted us to give it another shot. I said no.

When I dropped 30lbs, an old crush asked for my phone number. I said no.

Fact: If someone didn’t want you before, they don’t deserve you after. You’re worth more than that.

Don’t do it to please someone else. Don’t do it to make someone want you. 

Do it because you deserve to be happy in your own skin. Do it because your opinion of yourself is the only one that truly matters. 

Do it because you have been through so much. You have sacrificed so much and been so strong. You deserve this. 

Fact: It will hurt. It will be difficult. It will take time. Anything worth having always will. But don’t give up. You can get there. You will get there. 

Don’t give up. It will be worth it. I believe in you.

[skinnygirls-theydonteat]

‘love this

[lost in my own world]

In all these years, you never believed I loved you. And I did. I did so much. I did love you. I even loved your hate and your hardness.

Tennessee Williams, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof (via books-n-quotes)